We attract each other through evidence of our liberated potential – and this is visible to varying degrees, according to the spectrum of appreciation which our lives portray:The more naturally we express what we are – the more relaxed we are with our capacities and capabilities. The more unaffectedly we articulate what we are – the less we engage in artifice. The more unpretentiously we convey what we are – the less we concern ourselves with the projection of a calculated persona. The more we abandon the need to make demands of arising situations – the more open we are to the mysterious arising of khandro-pawo mirroring.
p150, Entering the Heart of the Sun and Moon Ngakpa Chögyam and Khandro Déchen, Aro Books, 2009, ISBN 978-0-9653948-3-3