The circumstances which befall us in the world are—generally speaking—the random functioning of the universe. So merit is not what happens to us – but how we see what happens. If we have kindness-Mind we initiate kindness-action – and kindness becomes the way in which we perceive the world. p81, Rays of the Sun, Ngakpa Chögyam, Aro Books worldwide, 2010, 978-1-898185-06-2