We need to accept the success or failure of whatever we do with a sense of wryness. We need to treat these two imposters just the same. With the discovery of experiential space we can let go of the emotional investment we put into all our plans and efforts. Things actually become easier when we allow ourselves to play with our situation, rather than having to take it totally seriously. The lightness of this approach is a manifestation of our developing clarity.
p90, Spectrum of Ecstasy, Ngakpa Chögyam with Khandro Déchen, Aro Books, 1997, ISBN 0-9653948-0-8