When the quality of our experience becomes more spacious, something completely delightful happens. This sense of space enables us to develop the ability to see the pattern of our continual attempts to manipulate the world – according to what we imagine would be our advantage. Once we start to see these frantic manipulative strategies as something artificial, they begin to lose their hold on us. Seeing the patterns of distracted-being, and recognising them as such, is the beginning of clarity.
p96, Spectrum of Ecstasy, Ngakpa Chögyam with Khandro Déchen, Aro Books, 1997, ISBN 0-9653948-0-8