In life situations there is always malleability as long as we have a spacious view. There are unending possibilities for creativity in our circumstances – but we need an open view to see them. There are continual challenges which allow us to improvise – but we need an open view to meet them. This open view, however, is not based on fantasy or fear – it is simply based on being here, without great expectations.p22, Emailing the Lamas from Afar, Ngakpa Chögyam and Khandro Déchen, Aro Books, 2009, ISBN 978-0-9653948-5-7