We do not get stuck in reference points. We create them and suffer as they collapse and cease to be reference points. All you can do is ‘be as open as possible to all possibilities’ whilst observing the mechanism of samsara as you play it out.p81, Emailing the Lamas from Afar, Ngakpa Chögyam and Khandro Déchen, Aro Books, 2009, ISBN 978-0-9653948-5-7