‘Your neuroses’ are not separate from the ‘you who wants to destroy your neuroses’. As long as you cling to that bifurcation—non-dual realisation will elude you. You have to accept the entire situation or it can never be transformed—let alone self-liberated. This situation is all we have—and there is actually no other way to proceed. We have to celebrate the situation as it presents itself—and simply, wordlessly, observe the play.
p170, Emailing the Lamas from Afar, Ngakpa Chögyam and Khandro Déchen, Aro Books, 2009, ISBN 978-0-9653948-5-7