How can one be open to romance when one is tied up in limitations which govern how it can occur? Basically we need as few limitations as possible. Body type is a limitation which causes people to restrict themselves too much – especially at this point in history. People have been surprised to hear us say that a yogi or yogini should be attracted to all body types: peaceful, joyous, and wrathful. That is to say: thin, sensuous, and large. One cannot entertain concepts of being a tantrika if there are body types to which one could feel no attraction. p152-153, Entering the Heart of the Sun and Moon Ngakpa Chögyam and Khandro Déchen, Aro Books, 2009, ISBN 978-0-9653948-3-3
