Many people—but only honest people—find spaciousness irritating, and would prefer the claustrophobia and snugness of deranged density. The simplicity of acknowledging spaciousness requires precision. Precision does not allow the seeming safety of woolly-edged spin-doctoring.We enjoy a soupçon of confusion, in which to establish the experiential ground rules from which non-duality can be seen as the unobtainable godhead. Non-duality is irritatingly possible – because it is our authentic nature and somehow, being reminded of that, is irritating. So … you can either be irritated or you can be irritated. It is entirely up to you.
p69-70, Emailing the Lamas from Afar, Ngakpa Chögyam and Khandro Déchen, Aro Books, 2009, ISBN 978-0-9653948-5-7