When we embrace our emotions in Vajrayana practice, we begin to operate in a more magnanimous way. We embrace greater emotions: greater appetite, greater rage, greater passion, greater speed, and greater abandon. With this unwithheld approach we begin to lose track of our referential ground and our referential boundaries. Then we have nothing to gain or lose—we simply have the existential fact of what is—whatever it is. p148, Emailing the Lamas from Afar, Ngakpa Chögyam and Khandro Déchen, Aro Books, 2009, ISBN 978-0-9653948-5-7